Yes Jafar, but look around the reality of the world.
Are we not accountable for what we do?
Or who is responsible for all the wickedness, oppressions and injustice?
Without any 'harm doing', what is there to forgive?
The choice between "vengeance" or "forgiveness" is always an option that one can take, out of their own free will.
Be "thankful" for the 'harm doing' as that's one chance to give forgiveness.
You may say "karma" . I say a day of justice-set aside- will come from the Created for all to witness true justice.
An atom s weight of good or an atom s weight of bad. Everything will be present for each one.
It's known by many names, karma, what goes around comes around, reap what you sow, non-attachment, every good deed one does for it's own soul and every bad deed one does for it's own soul etc..
And as mentioned above it can be the "day" of "vengeance" or the "day" of "Forgiveness".
By the standard that you judged others you will also be judged, thus don't judge thus you shall not be judged. Forgive and you shall be forgiven. That's what Jesus, Siddharta and others recommend.
Because every events happened in accordance to the will of Abba/Father of All.
In other tradition this is known as the "Life Review Event", where every 'events' will be replayed for review and then forgiven/accepted or 'avenged/punished' depending on one's choice. Nothing shall remain 'hidden' in this universe as every thoughts of all identity/entity and events is recorded in the 'universal cloud database' to utmost clarity.
That's the backdrop why Siddharta and other Yogis said:
Forgiveness shall break the bond of karma.
Vengeance will only strengthen the bond of karma.
So let us keep doing more good and being the best we can for ourselves and all our brothers and sisters-humans-
I will say humans and non-humans alike, as everything is the children of the father, the children of the one creator.
Including the 'dark' ones..
As the 'dark' are helping others to recognize the 'light'.
The bad are helping others to recognize the good.
Haters are helping others to recognize lovers.
From my side of things,I love you brother and I forgive everyone who wronged me- you have not wronged me as far as I know- and I ask forgiveness from anyone I wronged.- if I wronged you unknowingly, forgive me-
GOD bless you.
Peace.
Thank you that's the recommended approach as the forgiveness that one give to others is the forgiveness that one give to his/her own self. Because everything exist in unity, or in sufis terminology 'wahdat al-wujd'.
And every events happened in accordance to the creator's will.
"Rebellion" thus separation is a manipulation invented by religion.
Yet as mentioned above, it also help one to recognize the opposite, unity.