Author Topic: Does the Quran Support the Concept of Dating?  (Read 172 times)


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Does the Quran Support the Concept of Dating?
« on: February 13, 2020, 01:18:56 PM »

Dating is a stage of romantic relationships in humans whereby two people meet socially with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a prospective partner in an intimate relationship. Men and women who choose to date often have no commitment to consider marrying the other person. With dating, intimacy precedes commitment.

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Today, all good food is made lawful for you. The food of the people of the scripture is lawful for you, [and your food is lawful for them]. Also, you may MARRY the chaste women among the believers, as well as the chaste women among the followers of previous scripture, provided you pay them their due DOWRIES. YOU SHALL MAINTAIN CHASTITY, NOT BEING LEWD, NOR TAKING SECRET LOVERS. Anyone who rejects faith, all his work will be in vain, and in the Hereafter he will be with the losers. [Quran 5:5] 

IF YOU DIVORCE THEM BEFORE TOUCHING THEM, but after you had set the dowry for them, the compensation shall be half the dowry, unless they voluntarily forfeit their rights, or the party responsible for causing the divorce chooses to forfeit the dowry. To forfeit is closer to righteousness. You shall maintain the amicable relations among you. God is Seer of everything you do. Quran 2:237

Marry chaste women provided you pay them their due dowries. You shall maintain chastity, not being lewd nor taking secret lovers. Also in the second verse it speaks about divorcing women before touching them, now how is this possible if they had got intimate with each other beforehand? I find the Quran to support courtship not dating.

Courtship is the period of development towards an intimate relationship wherein a couple get to know each other and decide if there will be a betrothal or an engagement, followed by a marriage. Courtship is undertaken only when both parties are prepared to make a commitment to marriage. With courtship, commitment precedes intimacy.

"Guide us to the straight path" Quran 1:6