Grand Qur?ān teaches the subject of Human Sexuality

[Mazhar]

The purpose and consideration for the creation of matter and life is to subject the man; who is bestowed autonomy of self governance and freedom of choice, freewill, to trial for exposing who of them remains relatively better, moderate, proportioned, meets the standards of beauty with regard to determined and volitional acts.

And it is matter of common knowledge that all our willful-volitional acts are caused by the desire to satisfy the appetite, attractions, pleasures or lust of three areas of our body; chest/heart; stomach, and the genitalia. There is no other point where we have an appetite.

Pleasure and Pain are stimulus for volitional action, conduct, behavior. Nature has placed mankind under the governance of two sovereign masters, pleasure and pain. Appealing features and attractions tempt and sooth us giving pleasures and comforts. In timeline, attractions, allures for human beings have been in this sequence:



Know it; The love of erotic predilections - stimulators has become alluring for the people (Men), fetish from the women;

How sexual system turns-on

Why Men want sex? Do woman also want sex?

http://haqeeqat.pk/Sexuality.htm

[Mazhar]

Subject hot;  Forum cool.

[NewFrenzy]

Subject hot;  Forum cool.

Subject is beautifully explained. I can only say I have failed this test.

[Mazhar]

Subject is beautifully explained. I can only say I have failed this test. Unlucky to be born to a family who does not make arrange marriages at very young age.

On marriage and its protocols I am writing which will take some time. Marriage at very young age (adolescence) is not prescribed, it is when a male and female has crossed over to strengthen maturity and have become man and woman.

I thought there may be a member expert on sexology who could enlighten us more on cues that arouse a man and excite a woman subconsciously and then research about it in Qur'aan.

[good logic]

Peace Mazhar.
There are two aspects to human sexuality:
1-Instinct.
2-Learned.
While the instinct is natural and has a built in parameters and warnings from the body, the learned aspect can depend on habits and attitudes learned from society/humans.
Also we differ from animals,In most animals sexual motivation is under stricter hormonal control than is the case in humans. The female of most species is not interested in sexual behaviour until cyclic hormonal changes produce estrus. The male, however, is usually sexually ready but is prevented from engaging in sexual behaviour by the female until estrus occurs.
So like all motivations ,sexual motivation plays a big part in humans and the physical and the spiritual self are often at odds when it comes to sexuality.
Qoran advises on good conduct and good etiquettes ,but allows pleasure with the right  parameters and conditions.
GOD bless you.
Peace.

[The Sardar]

On marriage and its protocols I am writing which will take some time. Marriage at very young age (adolescence) is not prescribed, it is when a male and female has crossed over to strengthen maturity and have become man and woman.

I thought there may be a member expert on sexology who could enlighten us more on cues that arouse a man and excite a woman subconsciously and then research about it in Qur'aan.

I know someone but he is not a member. I'll message you who he is. Alos see this: http://www.hiddenmysteries.org/health/effects/pedophilia.html

This article is about the horrible effects of pedophilia on children.

[imrankhawaja]

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[huruf]

Humans are split. And "education" and "learning" work hardo to turn them into complete schizofrenical.

Why are there so many species of animals who have deep couple relationships, even for life, like most birds and many mammals. Animals can, by being themselves be more learned and educated than humans.

Humans are cunning, and learn to be cunning with disregard for wisdom so they can get away with many things in life, but they do not become happier or their societies happier.

Sex, apart from everything else... ?Waw! It is a pity we do not have two bodies, so we could dedicate one of them to sex, and then the other to everything else without haing that hard nut which is sex creating problems and at the same time us having all the fun and schizophrenia we delight in.

What is it Isa ibnu Maryam did? Creat from mud someting like birds? Like sexually satisfied flying animals?

oor 'Isa, neither he nor anybody after him can overcome human capacity to cheat themselves.


Salaam and plenty of sex, damn the rest.

[good logic]

Wisdom has it that those who abstain from sex and food and...things that are of this life, the pleasure is more satisfying and the mind a lot happier!
Who dares wins.
GOD bless.
Peace.

[good logic]

No, good logic is not saying starve yourself from sex, food,...etc.. Rather do not give them importance.
What is necessary and right has to be done.
What is a priority( soul) is more important . What does it need?
GOD bless.
Peace.