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parvez mushtaq

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Re: For Men Only !
« Reply #20 on: June 29, 2017, 11:18:20 AM »

As to the Queen of Saba, she was not manipulative, obviously, she was straight, she was simply inteligent, like many males who choose intelligence rather than violence. Intelligence is not the same as manipulation. There are mani manipulators who are intelligent at all. Dealings between females and males, whatever the relatinship, should always be honourable and respectful, not games to see who gets away with what.

I have modified my article here ,Huruf

I will reproduce here for you , huruf

Verse 27.28
Take this letter of mine and deliver it to them. Then leave them and see what
they will return.”
Verse 27.29
She said, “O eminent ones, indeed, to me has been delivered a noble letter.
Verse 27.30
Indeed, it is from Solomon, and indeed, it reads: ‘In the name of Allah, the Entirely Merciful, the Especially Merciful,
Verse 27.31
Be not haughty with me but come to me in submission [as Muslims].’ ”
Verse 27.32
She said, “O eminent ones, advise me in my affair. I would not decide a matter until you witness [for] me.”
Verse 27.33
They said, “We are men of strength and of great military might, but the command is yours, so see what you will command.”
Verse 27.34
She said, “Indeed kings – when they enter a city, they ruin it and render the honored of its people humbled. And thus do they do.
Verse 27.35
But indeed, I will send to them a gift and see with what [reply] the messengers will return.”

It is evident from the above verse that a woman can rule a nation at par like man .interestingly, that woman ruler is much more diplomatic than a man because if it was a male ruler he would have immediately declared war but this woman, makes a decision to allure him and gives a very wise reason for that

Surah: 3   Aya: 14
Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire – of women and sons, heaped-up sums of gold and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah has with Him the best return.

Every one among us might have experienced bucket full of dramas from woman .if you are married and have kids, they use our kids as lethal weapon against us. So their plan and its execution is much more cunning than a male .planning …..It reminds me about a verse about the planning of women
i sincerely thank you for reminding me ,huruf .i have modified it also .


In the heavenly book, the universal statement, the Quran which addresses all the problems of human race gives a clear statement about women .ponder upon these verses

Verse 33.28

O Prophet, say to your wives, “If you should desire the worldly life and its adornment, then come, I will provide for you and give you a gracious release.

Verse 33.29

But if you should desire Allah and His Messenger and the home of the Hereafter – then indeed, Allah has prepared for the doers of good among you a great reward.”

Verse 66.05

Perhaps his Lord, if he divorced you [all], would substitute for him wives better than you – submitting [to Allah], believing, devoutly obedient, repentant, worshipping, and traveling – [ones] previously married and virgins.

Can anyone tell me what the hikma of these verses is?

Why Quran is so stern about the wives of our prophet


Quran is making a very good example by giving the parables of two good women and two bad in the verses, these verses are especially for ladies

Verse 66.10

Allah presents an example of those who disbelieved: the wife of Noah and the wife of Lot. They were under two of Our righteous servants but betrayed them, so those prophets did not avail them from Allah at all, and it was said, “Enter the Fire with those who enter.”

Verse 66.11

And Allah presents an example of those who believed: the wife of Pharaoh, when she said, “My Lord, build for me near You a house in Paradise and save me from Pharaoh and his deeds and save me from the wrongdoing people.”

Verse 66.12

And [the example of] Mary, the daughter of ‘Imran, who guarded her chastity, so We blew into [her garment] through Our angel, and she believed in the words of her Lord and His scriptures and was of the devoutly obedient.

It was the outcome of this discussion .i cannot do it here so i did on my site

parvez mushtaq

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Re: For Men Only !
« Reply #21 on: June 29, 2017, 11:52:50 AM »
In theory, it's a great idea that I would spend my precious time to refute your perception of women.  Fortunately, I have nor time or desire to do so. If you have such a low opinion of women, and this is what you have garnered during your life so far, then it is your perogative.

Take care.


How can you refute Quran .divorce is very common now. lot of men don't believe in marriages .there is no tranquility in marriages .it is more like compromise .there is no submission in love .
BTW ,what you think about these statements
- wife taking care of her in laws (fatwa)
- men supposed to spend on wife ,only if she make herself available (fatwa)
-Wife giving zakat to her husband (fatwa)

do you think these type of fatwas can unite husband and wife .no man will ever think that his wife or his  children are a separate entity .i believe home is a one unit
this is the real Islam which is the part of this world now,pl don't tell me we will never get effected by these fatwas