Ok, I've been on this site for awhile now, mostly in the shadows admittedly, but its still likeable in many ways. The only problem though is that I'm pretty much alone in terms of outside-the-internet searching for like minded people. I hate to use the word but I'm desperate in a sense to build some sort of connections to other like minded people, and although there is the occasional talk of meeting physically it doesn't seem to pan out.
I'd be interested to know if anyone would be prepared to meet me and/or any other members (presumably in the UK?

) seriously for discussions/friendship/whatever. It would of course be planned in advance between the individuals, in a public place, and whatever other securities wanted.
I'd also be interested to know if there are any other websites of online communities which I could join that doesn't revolve around matrimony.