Quote from: Confused on December 13, 2012, 04:32:55 AM
So why are people here upset that an atheist came in and opened a thread? Isn't that the whole point of this forum?
I don't think people are upset that an atheist opened up a thread. However, people do want to know why. I think that you need to make yourself clear of your reasons.
it was not clear to me at the start that you are an atheist. I am sure you have your reasons for your belief or disbelief just as faithful-jinn has made himself clear. So wondering what do you hope to come and examine for yourself here? What is it that you want to know that will help you decide that you made the right choices/decision? when you are closed to differing views, then I fail to understand what is it that you are wanting? if you are not open to reading different views and refuse to read posts if you don't like what is said or perceive was said, then why bother?
You don't have to agree with what others have said, but at least it would be nice on your part to appreciate that people have taken time to share their views, understanding and beliefs. People have tried to help you see things.
What I have learned from my personal experience is that if you are sincerely trying to figure things out for yourself and really want to learn and understand, people are very open to that wanting to help in your search for your truths. Of course keep in mind that people will try to sway you to believe what they believe to be the truth. It is for you to think and decide for yourself. But if you start arguing and reacting negatively, personally attacking people, then you cannot expect people to then respond to you in a positive manner.
If you are confused as you say and sincerely wanting to put out any doubts, then I suggest that you take a different approach with an open mind, willing and wanting to listen and understand. Also internet has made it so much easier. There are lot of books out there that you can read. I have read personal stories of what lead people to be atheist, and what lead them to then become believers. I have lurked forums, websites listening to various religious groups and sects to learn about where I stand. It helps a lot in reading opposing view points.
If you are looking for us to provide you with evidence or to change your mind of what you have come to disbelief then expect to be disappointed. If you are confused and looking to be less confused wanting us to share our beliefs, thoughts, views to help you then I am sure people will be open but if you are closed reacting the way that you have, then don't expect people to really care.