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Defenition of marriage suggests sex before marriage permitted?!

Started by nimnimak_11, May 04, 2009, 12:52:27 PM

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nsws1988

What happened to this thread anyways? Have you come up with a consensus?

siki


huruf

Quote from: nsws1988 on June 07, 2009, 03:30:12 PM
What happened to this thread anyways? Have you come up with a consensus?


I doubt that there will be any consensus. Also there is no hurry. This is an opportunity to think through and throughly many questions that arise in connection with this subjet. As far as I am concerned one such fundamental question is the meaning or meanings of "ma malakat aymanu(cum)". I intend to study each occurrence of the term and that takes time. No more than three steps and one is already muddled up. Also there is no guarantee that one will come to a final conclusion and maybe there is also no need. God will provide.

Salaam

nsws1988

Quote from: huruf on June 08, 2009, 06:04:29 AM

I doubt that there will be any consensus. Also there is no hurry. This is an opportunity to think through and throughly many questions that arise in connection with this subjet. As far as I am concerned one such fundamental question is the meaning or meanings of "ma malakat aymanu(cum)". I intend to study each occurrence of the term and that takes time. No more than three steps and one is already muddled up. Also there is no guarantee that one will come to a final conclusion and maybe there is also no need. God will provide.

Salaam

Peace,

I was just confused as to where everyone went as I couldn't find a consensus. But of course like you said there is no hurry and God will provide.
I pray that God will guide you on your study.

God bless

Fahad

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progressive1993

10:41 If they deny you, say: "My works are for me, and your works are for you. You are innocent of what I do, and I am innocent of what you do."

liquiddharma

Quote from: progressive1993 on June 11, 2009, 05:51:31 PM
http://www.jesus-for-all.com/media/Sha7rour-Marriage-RightHand-Possession/transcript.html

any opinions about this?


I think the doctor has a very negative attitude towards women and children. People, who don't think men have a responsibility towards their children, are scum.

Quote from: the linkSheikh Khaled : Our professor. What happens if there was pregnancy out of adultery? In case the relationship is behind closed doors, nobody is watching and the rest of the conditions you told us do not apply.

Dr Shahrour : Yes, it's her fault then.

Sheikh Khaled : Then what?

Dr Shahrour : It's her fault that she agreed to that.

Sheikh Khaled : What do we tell her now; throw away your baby in the basket?

Dr Shahrour : It's her fault I'm saying, her fault. I'm telling you that 80% of the relationships on earth are allowed (halal).

progressive1993

Quote from: liquiddharma on June 11, 2009, 06:34:06 PM

I think the doctor has a very negative attitude towards women and children. People, who don't think men have a responsibility towards their children, are scum.


True, he could have said "use contraception" or something. But what do you think about Dr. Shahrour's arguement as a whole?
10:41 If they deny you, say: "My works are for me, and your works are for you. You are innocent of what I do, and I am innocent of what you do."

jaythikay99

Quote from: progressive1993 on June 11, 2009, 06:47:20 PM
True, he could have said "use contraception" or something. But what do you think about Dr. Shabbir's arguement as a whole?
dr shabbir? who is that?


Elke

QuoteSheikh Khaled : Our professor. What happens if there was pregnancy out of adultery? In case the relationship is behind closed doors, nobody is watching and the rest of the conditions you told us do not apply.

Dr Shahrour : Yes, it's her fault then.

Sheikh Khaled : Then what?

Dr Shahrour : It's her fault that she agreed to that.

Sheikh Khaled : What do we tell her now; throw away your baby in the basket?

Dr Shahrour : It's her fault I'm saying, her fault. I'm telling you that 80% of the relationships on earth are allowed (halal). /quote]

my two pence on this point : khaleed talks about his definition of adultery(actually "fornication"), much vaster than shahrours. shahrours answer is on the few cases he considers adultery (when a man has sexual intercourse with a woman married with another man). i guess this is why his answer seems so mysoginistic.

the quote underneath
QuoteDr Shahrour : It's up to them, if he clears her she is his right hand possession, if she clears him he is her right hand possession.
/quote] shows thats his views are not that mysoginistic . Which scholar would accept a man to be a woman right hand possession  ;D

in all, i think what he says has inner logic. would be easier to understand and follow as an article though instead of an inteview
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