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Started by mmkhan, August 22, 2008, 03:43:14 AM

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mmkhan

Salaamun all,

I am a member of this site since it built. But unfortunately, I lost my password in between and opened a new account few years later.

I know and discussed a lot with brothers Joe, Layth, Kyle, Waqas and lot more... :group: I don't know whether they remember me still or not   :confused:

First part: [very old]

I am from India (living in Dubai, now). I belonged to a sect called Mehdavi. And our family got a very very good values in the society and my mom and dad are respected well in our area. A little intro about Mehdavi, if you are interested or else you can jump to next para. Mehdavi is a group who believes in an Imam called Mehdi. They think Prophet Mohammed is just the only source of sending AlQuraan to the world, but Mehdi got the real explanation of AlQuraan from Allah. They follow Murshids [Preachers] They never ever listen to others and/or never go against Murshid. Murshid's words the last for them. If anyone ask any question, he is kafir or murtid [not a Mehdavi]. They clearly declase that "Mehdi ka munkar kafir" means who so ever don't believe in their Mehdi is kafir. They don't stand for Salaat behind non-Mehdavi. Even when they goto Hajj they delay going to salaat because they want to make their own jamaat [for salaat] with their Murshid. Overall, they believe in Mehdi more than Allah. Allah for them is used for the name sake.

I can describe them more as I won 2nd position in the quiz about Mehdi.  :yay:

After a long time of almost 2-3 years... we [me and my friends] are declared kafirs and get banned from mosques because we dont believe in Mehdi. And our whole community about 4000 houses in our locality came to know about us all. After that none of our old friends can meed us, all the eyes are on us everytime, like who is coming to us, how much time they have spent with us, etc. etc....

We wanted to meet new generation and explain them about the truth. But it was not possible  :& . We came to know that people are gathering for us. They wanted to teach us a lesson or they may kicked us out of our locality. But in response... I said "Allahu kaaffa li abdihi". Allah is enough for me as Allah shown that aayat from Sura AlImraan. And Alhamdulillah, everything cool down. And now almost 50% of my locality people are converted and converting from Mehdvi to Sunni  :hmm


Second part: [Old]

One of my friend [who is US, Texas now] shown me some aayaats telling that is AlQuraan not enough for us? Alhamdulillah, I cannot able to deny those aayats. He was surprized to see my acceptance. As he faced lot of problems when he tried to explain/convince others. I said, "it is very easy... I cannot deny any aayat because I already came to know that AlQuraan is the absolute truth and from Allah. I could be wrong in my understandings but aayaats cannot be wrong."

So, I became "Allah aloner". I think it is better than saying "AlQuraan aloner".  :angel:


Third part: [Very new]

Now, I got clashes with my in-laws regarding AlQuraan alone. They say, I became a kafir and my Nikah got Haraam and I am doing Zina when I am going to my wife. Whatever I am earning is Haraam for my wife and for my children.

So, they took Qula [Talaaq] on 5th of June 2008. I dont care for what ever is happened, but I do care of my children. I try to keep myself  ;D but from heart I am  :'( .You can find more details about this at

http://free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9596986.0

After a month of my Talaaq, I came back to Dubai.

I hope I am not bored you with all my personal stories...

May Allah guide us all towards the correct path towards Him alone.

Regards,
mmKhan
6:162    قل إن صلاتي ونسكي ومحياي ومماتي لله رب العلمين
6:162    Say: My contact prayer, and my rites, and my life, and my death, are all to Allah, Lord of the worlds.

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jankren

If I were you I would rather keep my belief to myself and trusted others than risking losing my family. By the way did your wife disagree with you as well?


"We know too well that our freedom is incomplete without the freedom of the Palestinians."
- Nelson Mandela

"Hesitation leads to masturbation."
- Socrates

mmkhan

Salaam Jankren,

I really felt bad to see this "If I were you I would rather keep my belief to myself and trusted others than risking losing my family". I think my family is greater than what I follow or from the path of Allah. I should not fear of losing my family if I am on Allah's path.

Jankren wrote:
By the way did your wife disagree with you as well?

Yes brother, my wife also disagree with me and my beliefs. Thats why she immidiately left my house when her uncle [father's brother - the real fasaadi] ask her to come with him. He said, "I cannot leave my daughter here in Jahannam... This house [my house, he was sitting in] is a real jahannam... if I dont take my daughter with me... I will go to hell as well... Common beta [daughter] lets go from here for ever..." And my wife suddenly got up, she collected all her jewelry and cloths and went with him.

What to say more ???

Regards,
mmKhan
6:162    قل إن صلاتي ونسكي ومحياي ومماتي لله رب العلمين
6:162    Say: My contact prayer, and my rites, and my life, and my death, are all to Allah, Lord of the worlds.

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jankren

Well, in that case I cant say anything because I though your wife was indifferent toward your belief. So how about your kids?


"We know too well that our freedom is incomplete without the freedom of the Palestinians."
- Nelson Mandela

"Hesitation leads to masturbation."
- Socrates

mmkhan

Salaamun Jankren,

Well, my kids are with me  :-X

My son is 4 years old and my daughter is 3 now.

Regards,
mmKhan
6:162    قل إن صلاتي ونسكي ومحياي ومماتي لله رب العلمين
6:162    Say: My contact prayer, and my rites, and my life, and my death, are all to Allah, Lord of the worlds.

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jankren

Quote from: mmkhan on August 24, 2008, 02:43:07 PM
Salaamun Jankren,

Well, my kids are with me  :-X

My son is 4 years old and my daughter is 3 now.

Regards,
mmKhan

How come they let you have them?


"We know too well that our freedom is incomplete without the freedom of the Palestinians."
- Nelson Mandela

"Hesitation leads to masturbation."
- Socrates

Roshan

Quote from: mmkhan on August 24, 2008, 02:43:07 PM
Salaamun Jankren,

Well, my kids are with me  :-X

My son is 4 years old and my daughter is 3 now.

Regards,
mmKhan


Congratulations!

Allah tested you and you came through with your children and ditched the idol worshippers who were persecuting you because you were a Muslim. However what they do not realise is what they have lost (the opportunity for salvation).

God willing you can raise your children as best as you can and they will fear God and avoid association with Him.

If you are upset it is probably because you are adjusting to life without your family, but you have God on your side. You are extremely brave and honourable.

In Dubai, be careful. Do not be aloof about your religion.

Good luck.

Roshan

mmkhan

Salaamun Jankren and Roshan,

Oops! sorry sorry sorry! I made a mistake  :brickwall:

I wanted to write that my kids are NOT with me  :'(

I am sorry for the mistake.

Regards,
mmKhan
6:162    قل إن صلاتي ونسكي ومحياي ومماتي لله رب العلمين
6:162    Say: My contact prayer, and my rites, and my life, and my death, are all to Allah, Lord of the worlds.

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abdu

salamu alikkum brother,
Sorry to hear that you lost your family and kids but these are testing from  God. You stick to your belief ,as Roshan said please take of yourself in dubai especially with quran only.
i am in duabi for last 14 years i know what it is. hamdullillah my wife supports me ang i took a decision not to go in public with quran only stuff especially infront of wahabis.I have yet to find another quran aloner in dubai and i have to learn a lot since i already wasted precious time behind hadith (but still i read them to see the blunders made by men) For the time being it is "lakkum dheenukkum waliya deen".
Insallah you will find peace in your life but be patient and stick to the belief without any corruption and invoke every thing top God alone.
abdu

mmkhan

Salaamun brother Abdu,

Thank you for your concern brother. May Allah reward you the best.

I will be pleased to meet you in Dubai, if you don't mind. inshaAllah.

Alhamdulillah, Allah has shown me lot of His aayaats / signs, and made me Sabit Khadam. InshaAllah, no one can make change my beliefs except Allah.

May Allah guide us all towards the correct path.

Regards,
mmKhan
6:162    قل إن صلاتي ونسكي ومحياي ومماتي لله رب العلمين
6:162    Say: My contact prayer, and my rites, and my life, and my death, are all to Allah, Lord of the worlds.

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