Quote from: amin on March 11, 2024, 11:24:34 PMI like your view, the steadfastness/discipline at times of hardships is the one required for us to come out of those difficult times.
I too have the idea, that fasting is not simply restricted to food alone, but primarily it starts with food.
Most of us revolves around with excesses of all kinds, be it rich or poor, these comes as a social practice, some may not follow or follow it as per their ableness.
I am thinking why the Islamic founders opted for a calendar to be solely based on moon is still not clear, as names like Rabi(spring that starts over march) should be spring months not the winter ones, possibly they want to remove all links of the religious events completely away from the preexisting practices that relied on sun/seasons or they thought its of no use to them or idolizing?
The sea farers, the farmers, the nomads in the desert, all need to adjust their activities based on the seasons, even our cleaning/repairing of the house if practiced on specific month, it will benefit?
Thank you for your reply..
No.. It's not primarily start with food.. That's ritual fasting, but God's command to Siyam not with food.. No relation at all with food and sex.
Let me explain..
We are to reform at every given interval. Every month is assigned for that to check our evils which we committed specially as believer..ie self reform through self control ... This is the fundamental purpose and meaning of Siyam.. So we can repent, we can ask forgiveness we can reflect a lot based on our prior DEEDS before we forget so we PERCEIVE the CONSEQUENCES...
Got it?
But you may wonder then why Sex and food in verse2:187 is writtem.. Sex is special PERMISSION.... If Allah had forbidden food and drink in the verse 2:187, He would have worded probably the verse 2:187 as "Permitted for you nights Siyam food and drink and whatever the real verse states.. But it is not the case..
Entire verse 2:187 is concentrated on PERMISSION of Sex at night instead of day where you devoted with fundamental of Siyam. Though sex is part of life and normal it is forbidden in view of the fact it would not pave way to the person who reform and reflect on his past deeds to repent .. It's a distraction..
Note even at the end of the verse also Allah didn't say anything about food and drink and said not to near Sex alone.. And finished the verse saying that's LIMIT of Allah ..yes for the purpose of Siyam.. Clear?
Now in the middle of the verse it states like "So now enjoy and have relations with them.... Yes at night... And combined with it EAT and DRINK.. indeed this means Allah is telling them to be NORMAL and be HAPPY at night. Having food and drink and enjoying with wife is a normal life.. Indeed food and drink is a fundamental need of human being.. But eventually (hatta) when it is time to begin the process of self control from dawn to dusk you are not ALLOWED to approach wife and NOT food and drink.. Since food and drink was amalgamated with nearing wife, it is wrongly assumed that you have to skip food and drink as well while you steadfast. Nope...
Just focus on the verse 2:187 and its aim.. And its aim is only to herald a message to those who reform every month three days during ful moon is that YOU ARE PERMITTED sex at night.. And no other message... But NEVER approach while in Self control but only at night cuz it is LIMIT of Allah.. And the meaning of Siyam is well known to them to the audience of then by word itself and that's why Allah said "prescribed for you Siyam as it was prescribed before you" well familiar the word itself .. Though word siyam is plumetted loads of manipulations with time...
Same to Maryam.. Eat and drink.. ie.. Be normal .. Eating and drinking is indeed a normal life.. Isn't it? But do what one has to do to self to control / be Desciplined to recollect ones DEEDS of the past and thus PERCEIVE / EXPERIENCE ones CONSEQUENCES... Thats Siyam.. So 2:187 was just a PERMISSION during the night when you involved in self control process for specific reason...
Logically ponder.. Sex is direct barrier and not food and drink... Reflect people. Suppose you working on a very critical project which requires all sorts of concentrations.. Would food and drink be barrier while working on it or would sex be barrier... Your entire concentration could well and truly detached cuz it's a distraction of direct nature .