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Started by thinkislam, February 10, 2006, 04:45:50 PM

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san


WARNING: profanity (nah, actually it's not that bad)

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...and in a more serious tone, i have to say that, depression could very well be a sign for oneself to start trying to understand something. Some lessons unique to his/her life. Only after having fully understood those specific personal lessons can he/she go on with life. But meh, what do i know about other peoples' life :p

Still, tracing your own life path and thinking about all the goodness received is a powerful starter.  Can you, say, at any given moment, have the feelings of both grateful AND depressed in equal intensity?

Even our understanding of the word 'grateful' itself needs checking. It is not about the 'should be' grateful ~ 'should be' happy that matters. Being generally politically correct is the least helpful thing you can do for yourself when you're talking about your own happiness.

In that case, the inquiry "If you were grateful/why are you depressed?" question is basically valid and necessary. Especially when the "grateful factor" is in the present, while the "depression factor" is not, as you can see from our bro's response above, which is quite an indicator.

And btw, re: "FDA should also approve antidepressants as medications that can increase your faith."

What is this? Who/what can increase your faith? Someone/something other than yourself?
You better be extremely careful with that.

Get a friend instead, someone you can really talk to each other. Why, because it's the best antidepressant ever made for humans!



True Love waits forever -- some just choose to fall in love sooner than some others. And the rest is by the way... nothing.

Alen

Hi.

We're getting off topic,
nevertheless,
thanks for the support, sisters and brothers.

:muscle:

:peace:
39:53 Say: ?O My servants who transgressed against themselves, do not despair of God\'s mercy. For God forgives all sins. He is the Forgiver, the Merciful.?

Rana

Quote from: Alen on December 12, 2010, 01:47:26 PM
Hi.

We're getting off topic,
nevertheless,
thanks for the support, sisters and brothers.

:muscle:

:peace:

yes, sorry Alen.  :peace:
The middle path is the way to wisdom.
Rumi

Jack

Quote from: Rana on December 11, 2010, 09:43:15 PM
Salaam Jack. Bbecause depression is not necessarily dependent upon things like whether you have good things in your life that you can be grateful for. So When I read that Alen had many great things in his life I didn't see anything strange with him also feeling or being depressed at the same time. Depression changes the whole way you view things, doesn't it. So, though a person may be able to list the many reasons why he should be happy & grateful it doesn't mean that s/he feels that.

Of course there is a difference in the way we use the word 'depression' too. I know here in Australia people will say they are depressed but they are not talking about clinical depression.

I'm sorry though because my 'very short' comment came out quite rude...what I should have done is provide more information - a quick statement wasn't enough in this situation. Also, I didn't mean you don't know anything...it was only meant to give you a pointer or reminder that depression could be quite possible in that situation. Forgive me Jack?  :peace:

Peace,

I appreciate the candor, but no need to apologize.

I never opined on depression itself anyway..

Having been close to people who've had clinical depression and worse, I know very well what it is. But there is also a difference between feeling like you are depressed and clinical depression. If alen is actually depressed he should seek help instead of incessantly whining about it on a public forum for years and years.

Anyway, this is way off-topic.


You gotta follow the truth even it brings the whole thing crumbling down around you - Sam Tyler, Life on Mars (UK)

I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense