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General Issues / Questions / Re: Multiple wives.
« on: February 20, 2014, 11:36:44 AM »
@ huruf

I was referring to 03:14

ُيِّنَ لِلنَّاسِ حُبُّ الشَّهَوَاتِ مِنَ النِّسَاء وَالْبَنِينَ وَالْقَنَاطِيرِ الْمُقَنطَرَةِ مِنَ الذَّهَبِ وَالْفِضَّةِ وَالْخَيْلِ الْمُسَوَّمَةِ وَالأَنْعَامِ وَالْحَرْثِ ذَلِكَ مَتَاعُ الْحَيَاةِ الدُّنْيَا وَاللّهُ عِندَهُ حُسْنُ الْمَآبِ 

Beautified for mankind is love of the joys (that come) from women and offspring; and stored-up heaps of gold and silver, and horses branded (with their mark), and cattle and land. That is comfort of the life of the world. Allah! With Him is a more excellent abode.


I am impressed by your sincerity and knowledge. But I would personally advise not to be too harsh on finding the perfect wife (as in someone who has already studied and analysed the Quran) because brother I think you can offer a lot.
I married someone with not as much knowledge as I had, but she was questioning the hadith cos they had started to seem fake to her. And together we studied Quran and now Alhamdulillah she is very knowledgeable in the Quran and is continuously studying its beauty and simple truthfulness. She has totally rejected hadith.
But my point brother is that I think if Allah accepts that the help I gave her in pointing out to her the truth helped her a lot, and I may just have saved her from falling prey to these hadithers!!
This is why I suggest you too could maybe guide another soul to the right path. The way one is able to guide their wives, it is much easier than guiding others.
This is just my advice brother.
BTW I do know a Quran only female but she is in Pakistan. She is very learned generally and has recently started rejecting hadith.

Salaams all

I wish I had enough time to read all previous comments before I post but unfortunately don't so forgive me if I say something repeated or out of context.

The way I see salaat:

وَاتَّخِذُوا مِنْ مَقَامِ إِبْرَاهِيمَ مُصَلًّى


Meaning Take your prayer from the Station of Ibraheem.
For me this ayat is enough and that's how I pray, how they do in our Islamic capital Makkah.

This is the only way the whole ummah will pray in unity. The point of Congregation is unity.

Salaam Brother,

Do you live in Turkey? and What languages do you speak cos you need to be able to communicate with your future wife.
Also would you marry someone from another country and would she have to relocate?

BTW I love Turkey and am wanting to move to there from UK.
Whereabouts are you in Turkey cos I am planning on moving to Bursa

General Issues / Questions / Re: Multiple wives.
« on: February 17, 2014, 09:19:51 AM »
Salaam All

The Quran definitely points out that the Messenger of Allah had more than one wife. And in the ayat about orphans it does not say marry off but marry. We cant add words from ourselves to the Quran.
Allah has made both men and women and he knows best how to make this system work.
Allah has put in a mans heart love for women(as mentioned in Quran) its just natural. Women don't feel the same urge for men as men do for women.
Also women have other physical conditions on them in which its difficult for a man to satisfy his sexual needs, so then he would start lusting over haram things. But in such a case Allah has allowed these men to take more than one wife so his needs are satisfied in a totally halaal way.
This is how Allah has made this system and he knows our needs better than us.
This is my opinion

Why should any sanity allow us to find GOOD HADITH when we have the BEST HADITH.

Quran 39:23

Hit the Nail on the Head!!

General Issues / Questions / Re: Multiple wives.
« on: February 06, 2014, 12:39:45 PM »
Also the ayat I think you are referring to is where Allah talks about marrying widows and he says you can marry them in twos threes and fours. But note that Allah does not put a cap on how many one can marry. So therefore I believe men can marry as many women as they wish so long as they can treat them all equally, which tbh I think is near impossible for most men. So therefore Quran advises them to stick to one.
Also if you read Islamic history you will find that many sahabas including Omar RA and Usman RA had more than four wives at a time.

Introduce Yourself / Re: Post your age, sex, location and marital status
« on: January 26, 2014, 02:54:43 PM »
I am Male
Of Pakistani origin
Living in UK
Age 30

Introduce Yourself / Re: salam
« on: January 26, 2014, 02:53:53 PM »
Sorry posted on wrong thread

Introduce Yourself / Re: salam
« on: January 26, 2014, 02:53:01 PM »
I am Male
Aged 30
Living in UK
Of Pakistani origin

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