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Peace and greetings! I have found both Wakas and Savage Carrot to be lacking in humility! Take it on the chin or not at all? You guys do not give credit were credit is due, and are quite intolerant of those who have a slightly different few to yours. Your  سَيِّئَةً/ dictates your lack of حَقٍّ and  يَعْبَأُ. I realise this is lost on you Narcissists, but I will speak up and point my boney finger in your direction! Consider yourselves seriously fingered dudes! 

Absolutely! Say your Mum or Da were Atheist? What would you say? Would you pray for them? (think back to Prophet Ibrahim)? We have free will to choose our path, we can feel bad for our family that we grew up with, or we can feel sorry for them and choose God? It's up to you? Who do you return to? ♥

Concerns! I have concerns! There are barely any Believers in the UK! Major concern for me at least!

Disagree with Good Logic whatever! God knows all, we know nothing!

Thought for the day!
People are saying that the corona virus is God's punishment for China. Is their such a thing as "collective punishment"? In other words does God wipe out entire cities, regardless of who is transgressing or not?

28:59 "Your Lord never destroys cities unless He [first] sends a messenger in their midst reciting Our verses, nor would We destroy cities unless their inhabitants were evil."

8:25 "And beware of that temptation to evil which does not befall only those among you who are bent on denying the truth, to the exclusion of others; and know that God is severe in retribution."

9:126 "Do they not see that they are tested every year once or twice (with calamities, disease)? Yet, they neither turn in repentance, nor learn a lesson (from it)."

This is God telling us not to be complacent, God is taking account of all things! Why must people insist on proclaiming The Most Merciful as a Tyrant!

I thought I might add that: Everything is from God. We would not even be able to light a fire without His inspiration! ♥

Peace and Greeting to all! What a whoop whoop question! Easy for me to answer at least. YES! As long as he believed in One God and the reading as guidance, loving kindness and oh oh so so so patient with me, then that's the affirmative, Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious! ♥

Peace Scrappy-doo.
  Never despair of GOD s mercy.
May be it is easy for me to say, but I am genuinely sharing with you a way that works . Prayer and asking support /help from GOD..
You may already do that as a believer,.
I will also share some verses with you:

19:32 He called his Lord, a secret call.?

19:4″ He said? My Lord, the bones have turned brittle in my body and my hair is aflame with grey. As I implore you, my Lord, I never despair.? ?

19:58″ These are some of the prophets (and believers) Whom GOD blessed. They were chosen from the descendants of Adam and the descendants of Noah, and the descendants of Abraham, Israel and from among those whom We guided and selected. When the revelations of the Most Gracious ( Your Lord and mine) were recited to them, they fell prostrate, weeping.? ( and praying!)

19:59″ After them, came generations who lost the prayers ( to the ONE GOD ONLY!) and pursued their desires. ( and lusts, some are praying to their idols, some are preoccupied with this life, most have forgotten GOD!) They will suffer the consequences.?

22:11″ Among the people, there is the one who serves/follows ( and prays to ) GOD conditionally. If things go his/her way, he/she is content. But ,if some adversity befalls him/her, he/she makes an about face. Thus he/she loses both this life and the hereafter. Such is the real loss.? ( we have to stay loyal to GOD? Even if  our prayer is not answered? And be patient?)


22:15″ If anyone thinks that GOD cannot support him/her in this life and in the hereafter, let him/her turn completely to ( the creator in ) heaven, ( submit and stay loyal to GOD ) and sever his/her dependence on anyone else. ( and pray to GOD ALONE!) HE/She will then see that this plan eliminates anything that bothers him/her.?

22:54″ Those who are blessed with knowledge ( Follow the word of GOD) will recognise the truth from your Lord, then believe in it, and their hearts readily accept it. Most assuredly, GOD guides the believers in the right path.? ( GOD ALONE, for prayer and everything we need. No idols!)

22:74″ They do not value GOD as HE should be valued! GOD is the Most Powerful, the ALMIGHTY.?

"When my servants/Ibadi ask about Me, I am near, I will answer the prayers of those who implore Me/ask Me..."
GOD answers our prayers ,eventually.(If it is negative,it is for our own good/a  blessing in disguise)

Good luck with  your prayers.
GOD bless you.
Peace.

Thankyou for reading and taking the time to respond! I never despair. It's just hard when it gets lonely. I do remind myself often about this temporary existence, alas I still feel the emotional pain of being alone, even if I do know it want last. Guess it's one of those inevitable parts of being a human.

Would you date a flat earther?  But im 29, maybe too young for you. Still through my past, my mental age is probably 60. If you like music i can also play some songs for you - a former guitarist/vocalist of a band 

I'm also very Truth oriented and i hate when people lie to me.

Thank you and possibly slightly too young, but what do I know, still single dude! lol

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PoEnPmjfl0A&feature=share

Peace and greetings! Thank you for your heartfelt comments. I was told that perhaps I should do a short BIO, as God does promote marriage. I was a bit reluctant when I read 24:60, as I thought that I was destined for the Knackers Yard! Now that I have looked at the sign, and then 24:33 popped up I felt so relieved. So here it is, blunt to the point and no HOLDS BARRED!

"I am like Mercury; my extreme volatile temperament cannot sustain life.
I am like Venus; the less obvious aspects of my character, could lead to temperatures hot enough to melt lead.
I am like Neptune; dark, cold, and moods that are whipped by supersonic winds.
I am like Saturn; complicated, and beautiful; with rings of jewels, made of ice and rock.
I am like the Earths Moon; I will always try to moderate my wobble, leading to a relatively stable climate.
I am like the Sun; magnetic, electrically charged, connecting and interacting with God's Solar system.
I am imperfect; yet perfect. " R3dBird 🧚‍♂️

About me:

I am 3 years shy of 60, I have been told I look like I'm in my late 40's. I have what is ironically called EID, used to be called BPD. (Look it up! Then get back to me with questions) I love music as I sing and play an instrument or two! I love the Qur'an and I am truly Qur'an Centric! I loathe anything that ascribes partners to God, or puts the Creation side by side with God. I am a muslim through and through, with all the complex flaws that go with being HUMAN! Most importantly and please READ THIS! I REJECT the Sahih Sittah dudes! The six books written by the Persian Imams are, as far as I am concerned; l-shayāṭīni, and you will not change my stance on that, so don't bother trying, it will only lead to enmity and disharmony!
I try to be really helpful, and kind, suffice to say I cannot be any other way. I have had people tell me that I am too kind and that is why I get taken advantage of: SHRUG! I don't care, that is the way God made me, and besides, you cannot use someone who serves God, think about it!
So if you are the one God chose for me, then get in your, Plane, Car, Boat and come and get me!

About my match

No Hadithocrites! No SUNNI'S or Shi'a, no SECTARIANS of any kind, including Christians, Jews, Buddhist, Hindu's etc. . . etc. . . Above all, no ATHEIST, only QUR'AN CENTRIC! Taller than me at: 167 cm. Must at least like music. Likes a snifter occasionally (only the indigenous English Gentlemen would know the meaning) preferably Irish, no offence to the Scots, love the accent though!

I am looking for my Viking! I am Red through and through, I have genetic Super Powers compared to you ORDINARY bods. So if you love a freckly natural glamorous Red head, with a fiery disposition, insanely loyal, would fight your corner like a character from Game of Thrones, plus a wicked sense of humour, then come hither!



WARNING: Scammers, Players, Dirty Dying Hell Hounds! Beware I do BITE!

  I went through a similar situation. My ex husband completely rejected my Qur'an centric views, and never hesitated to tell me that I was heading for the Hell fire and all those who followed what I was following. He would tell me that I am only following half my deen,one half being marriage the other is following the sunat of Muhammad. We argued for 6 years, to the point where he banned me from even mentioning the Qur'an as I did not understand it the same way he did. Suffice to say I ended up divorcing him. Two years on and I am feeling loads better, but I ain't gonna lie, it was very painful, and I experienced every cognitive dissonance going and a few more that probably haven't even been heard of!! What prompted me in the end was when I came across these signs:

5:5 "Today, all good food is made lawful for you. The food of the people of the scripture is lawful for you, [and your food is lawful for them]*. Also, you may marry the chaste women among the believers, as well as the chaste women among the followers of previous scripture, provided you pay them their due dowries. You shall maintain chastity, not committing adultery, nor taking secret lovers. Anyone who rejects faith, all his work will be in vain, and in the Hereafter he will be with the losers."

2:221 "Do not marry idolatresses unless they believe; a believing woman is better than an idolatress, even if you like her. Nor shall you give your daughters in marriage to idolatrous men, unless they believe. A believing man is better than an idolater, even if you like him. These invite to Hell, while God invites to Paradise and forgiveness, as He wills. He clarifies His revelations for the people, that they may take heed."

I was in a dilemma for sure. On the one hand I knew we were not compatible, and that being with him would be going against God's harmony and love that he puts between spouses. As much as I desired him, meaning when he was good he was good, but when he was bad he was worse! There were other extenuating circumstances that led to my final decision. God had enlightened me to his infidelity, and that for years (do not know how many) he had another wife coming up to visit him in Prison. I forgot to mention he was a lifer, serving a sentence for Murder, of which he denied vehemently for 28 years when he was finally released on the TERS Scheme https://assets.publishing.service.gov.uk/government/uploads/system/uploads/attachment_data/file/638876/tariff-expired-removal-scheme-v5.0EXT.pdf in May this year, he finally got released back to his Country of origin. I suppose I was blind sighted most of the time because are relationship was dependant on phone calls, and visits.

It was when he got released that I was able to read him on the video chat. Unfortunately he never changed, and I realised that for now at least this man was not intending to follow the Qur'an alone. At the time I thought I'd never find someone else, as I am three years shy of 60, and although I have no regrets in life, I was feeling regretful that I didn't leave him when the first red flag presented itself. Now I look at it as lesson learned, I passed my trial, although not with grace some of the time, and if I find a like minded individual then اَلْحَمْدُ لِلّٰ, but I lean on the side that perhaps it is purer for me to be on my own. Our Lord knows best eh?  I know I'm late to the party but I hope I have helped you, even in some small way?

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7KOdBW3_zsg