357: My husband is extremely smart and capable of learning and understanding. Two years of marriage has shown me just how calculating and intelligent he is. In the beginning I thought maybe we just had misunderstandings, but as time went on, I realized he chose me as his wife for a reason...I was not strong in the deen and he knew I would hang on to every word he said just to please him.
Now that my eyes have been opened, I know he will not change unless it is the will of God. Any talking I do regarding worshipping God alone will fall upon unreceptive ears. As a matter of fact, my husband whole heartedly believes that he IS only worshipping God alone. He does not see his leaning on the hadith as a problem, he sees it as a majority of other Muslims do: A requirement of Islam, and anyone who does otherwise is in disbelief.