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Ariana95

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Hello guys(:
« on: June 03, 2012, 06:11:23 AM »
Assalamualaikum and a bigggg HELLO to all the awesome people here!  :group:

My name is Arifa, and I am from Singapore. I am born into a traditional Sunni (very traditional~) family. Since young, I have heard alot about the "Islam" and many things have bothered me. In fact, I almost completely lost faith in Islam and was on the brink of madness. Literally. Women cannot do this. Women cannot do that. You can listen to music, blahblahblah.  :brickwall:

And when I asked my mom for explanations concerning these practices, all i got was byou are a kafir/munafiq questioning islam!"  :yeah: Yes mom, i am a kafir/munafiq in the SUNNI ISLAM.  :voodoo: I am also in an "ustaza" in a sunni madrasah. And all these poor kids are made to do is to memorise hadiths/surah/dua if not, they will get spanked. Im serious.  :& And I attended a sermon last month, and a "scholar" was telling that when a guy gets married, he doesnt have to listen to the wife but has to obey the parents. but when a GIRL gets married, she has to disobey HER parents to obey him. (idiot he is, im telling you! the only reason he is alive is because it is illegal to kill him -.-"  :elektro: )

Just a month ago, I was searching for an explanation for some of the other idiotic hadiths he was saying. And then I somehow stumbled upon this website. Praise be to the lord! i felt that supermegaultraveryso awesome moment when the truth unfolds before your very eyes! HALELLUJAH! Hehe(: After much research, i decided that hadith and sunna are utter rubbish! I mean, how can these people think that one of the Muhammad's missions was potty training for adults?!  :brickwall:

Haha, after a few days, i got into an argument with my mom. She told me that some hadith (hadith nawawi) and the Duas were inspired to muhammad alongside with the Quran.  :brickwall: :brickwall: :brickwall:

Then, I told her that following the hadith & sunna is a BIG disrespect to Muhammad. Guess what happened? My phone got confiscated  :'( Haha so weird man seriously. Anyways, I am now clear of all these rubbish in my head! I am ready to begin my spiritual journey to find out the TRUTH of the Qur'an. And I am also looking forward in having conversations with all of you! Once again, HOLA!  :bravo: O0 :sun:

Mr.Q

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #1 on: June 03, 2012, 06:49:48 AM »
Salam and good for you Ariana!  :sun:

Welcome to the site and God willing you will find all the answers you seek. It's a long road ahead, unlearning things you have learned and carefully studying, pondering and verifying all the new information and views that you will find here but God guides those who are sincere in their search for truth and knowledge. Enjoy the journey!

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #2 on: June 03, 2012, 07:54:52 AM »
Welcome to the forum Arifa!

I wish you good luck on your new journey (which I have also started only a few weeks ago). It's a long road indeed, but it's worth it. :)

God bless! :D

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #3 on: June 03, 2012, 08:52:40 AM »
Welcome Ariana95

This actually reminds me that I also need to introduce myself:

I am a humble servant of the creator. I do not claim anything. I call to GOD Alone. GOD s word is the truth and the messenger. Please browse-http://www.total-loyalty-to-god-alone.co.uk/hello-world/  (Google). May the Lord guide all those who sincerely seek HIM Alone.
In friendship and peace.
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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #4 on: June 03, 2012, 10:38:07 AM »
Salaam Arifa,

Welcome and may Allah make your journey a fruitful one!

You sound like very fiesty young lady, keep at it and insh'Allah may you find what Allah requires of you.

Salaam.
We have created you, so why do you not believe? (56:57).

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #5 on: June 03, 2012, 12:05:43 PM »
Salamun 3alaiky & Welcomes :)
Yeah, sunnis. I've been disowned by some, threatened, called kaffir/infidel.
Do not obey the disbelievers and the hypocrites, disregard their insults, and put your trust in God; God suffices as an advocate. (33:48)

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God's System of Righteousness (The Reward system for those who are Nice/Do Good)
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The Original purpose of our creation
http://free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9603282.0
~ God's Unconnditional servants ~
http://free-minds.org/forum/index.php?topic=9603053
7 "Hells", 2 Heavens, and a "Purgatory"
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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #6 on: June 03, 2012, 12:51:10 PM »
Wa Salamun Alayka Ariana95

 :welcome:

Nice to know you're from Singapore..
There's a handful of Singaporeans here I believe..
You can reach out to them.... leh...
And in case you're wondering, no I'm not Singaporeans.. lived there for some time in the distant past...

It's nice to know you're an 'uztasa' in a madrasa...
And yeah it's kind of sad how they (or should I say 'you' in this case.. :)) intoxicate little kids with 'religion absurdity'..
I bet they're also telling those little kids 'if you don't do this or that Allah will be angry and put you to hell'... or other horrible things..

Keeping children away from intoxication and indoctrination of religion absurdity will be among the little 'jihad' that we can do..

Salam / Peace
The Arabs (al-arabu) are the worst in rejection and hypocrisy, and more likely not to know the limits of what God has sent upon His messenger
9:97

And yes it's written as Al-Arabu and not Al-Badawi or Badawiyun..
*For those who had a hard time accepting this fact..

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #7 on: June 03, 2012, 01:53:00 PM »
Greetings and Peace, all  :group:

@ Ariana95:  :welcome:

10:25 GOD calls to the abode of peace, and He guides those whom He wishes to a straight path.

Doesn't it feel great?  :sun: It is a wonderful opportunity and a blessing to be Guided.  Nothing is ever really coincidence.

May ALLAH see fit to Guide all seekers.

 :peace:

~Abdul-Hadi

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #8 on: June 03, 2012, 05:51:01 PM »
Oh, I thought "uztaza" meant teacher, but then I thought if you are so fiesty and vehemently against it, how can you be propogating the exact same thing. I recently got offered a job, teaching English at an Islamic school (I did not apply,I was sought out), but I just don't understand how I would be able to separate teaching English from the overall ethos of the school, which is to indoctrinate those kids' heads with crap. I find it even more difficult to see how you would be able to do that in your position. I did think I should take up the position and lead them "astray" with The Truth. Perhaps, I will...  >:D Anyway sister, all the best.
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youssef4342

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Re: Hello guys(:
« Reply #9 on: June 03, 2012, 06:03:42 PM »
Peace & Greetings to you as well  :group:

Jafar,
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in a madrasa.= school

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