marry a woman but refraining sex doesn't seem fair to that woman. withholding physical/sexual intimacy in a marriage - you don't find anything wrong with that in of itself?
I do not.
Refraining from taking care of the women financially and protecting her it would seem is much worse than leaving her sexually.
The Quran is clear to gain control of the desires are the successful. Sex is a desire. You cannot
be fair to two women. So do not try to do that.
We are all aware to be fair financially and protecting is doable. But, desire is not. So do not even try.
The Arab muslims think themselves more pious then the american muslims. To them they are able to do this and be fair. They can even kill themselves and make it will Allah. But, they see that is not possible with us americans or any non middle eastern raised person I should say.
I do not agree with them about this. But, what is the use to argue the point?
They know. They do. They know that I am speaking the truth. They do.
You can't see they know this because they think themselves able to do this fairly where we cannot. No one can do this fairly. The Quran is the proof. The Quran says u cannot.
Hope I don't make any enemies here with my opinions. That is not my intention. I am just searching the truth.
Allah and his prophet are fair with women.