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Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« on: August 21, 2011, 07:37:48 PM »

by MA Khan

We received the following email from a Muslim reader, who has been mentally tormented over his dilemma about sex with toys and watching pornography. His name has been initialized to maintain privacy. I have expressed my view on the whole range of sexual dilemma, including masturbation Muslim youths face.

MZ Khan wrote:

I am not married therefore Is viewing porn films allowed in Islam & sex with toys allowed??

 

MA Khan's response:

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There is nothing in Islam that says that you cannot watch porn or do sex with toys. In Islam, you cannot have sex with other Muslim married women; for this, you should be stoned to death. If you have sex with unmarried Muslim girl, you will be subjected to 80 lashes. If you do get involved with another man in homosexual acts, you will be forgiven, if you repent.

However, you can do sex with Kafir women any way you want. You can attack the Kafirs, kill their men and then capture the women and have sex with them. You can also kidnap them and keep them as slaves as many as you want, who will do all the household work and also provide sex to you. Allah has sent down a divine sanction to Muslims for acquiring slave women for sex by waging wars against the infidels and from spoils or booty obtained from it:

O Prophet! surely We have made lawful to you your wives whom you have given their dowries, and those whom your right hand possesses out of those whom Allah has given to you as prisoners of war.. [Q 33:50]

These being the injunctions of Islam, I do not see much reason as to why you should be worried about watching porn or have sex with toys. However, you should be able to watch porn without any restriction. So is the case with sex with toys. Only thing you should be worried while watching porn as to whether  the woman you are watching in the sex-act is a Muslim or not. This is because, Islam Muslim men and women to lower their gaze when the come across unrelated Muslims of opposite sex. I do not think there are many Muslim women doing porn movies or anything like that. But I also believe that if a Muslim woman becomes porn-star, she does not remain Muslim any more. So, you should have nothing to worry about watching porn. About sex-toys, there is absolutely nothing to worry. Just fantasize it as a infidel woman, with whom you are allowed to do sex any way you want.

As I myself have grown up a Muslim, another dilemma Muslim youths face is about masturbation. There nothing specifically said about masturbation in the Quran. However, there is one hadith in which the prophet had prohibited some of his Sahabas from doing coitus interruptus with the captured women while on a Jihad expedition. Coitus interruptus means throwing the semen outside after sex in order not to make the woman pregnant. The reason was that the semen should not be wasted which could produce children. Production of Muslim children was very critical to add the number to the small Muslim community at that critical stage of Islam. However, in doing masturbation there is not possibility of making anybody pregnant. Young men keep loosing semen all the time through wet dreams. Muslim population is too big and Muslims have been producing more kids than they can handle.

So, I do not see any reason that you should not be able to do masturbation. Furthermore, many moderate Muslims have been urging to delete hadiths from Islam altogether. So, you should not be worried about that dubious hadith on Coitus Interruptus. Using condoms to limit pregnancy, which is the ideal example of Coitus Interruptus, has become quite common in the Muslims world.

Some Muslim scholars, however, argued that masturbation is prohibited in Islam on the basis of the following verse:

And those who guard their private parts from their wives and those (slave-girls) which their right-hands own - so there is no blame upon them. Then whoever seeks beyond that (which is lawful), they are the transgressors.

This verse (no Quranic verse for that matter) obviously does not address the issue of masturbation but that of legal female partners in sexual relations.

But to my judgment, masturbation which is widespread among Muslims and non-Muslims alike is a much lesser evil that Allah's commands [Quran 33:50] of waging wars for capturing the infidel women or kidnapping them for keeping them as sex-slaves and raping them.

Last but not the least, Muslims are one of the peoples most active in masturbation and watching porn in the world. Homosexual engagements amongst them are also equally high.

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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #1 on: August 21, 2011, 07:43:55 PM »
Peace,

... This is a joke, right? :o
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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #2 on: August 21, 2011, 08:58:22 PM »
What the hell? ???

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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #3 on: August 22, 2011, 12:29:42 AM »
Slam all,

I came across this article and wanna ask your position on his idea.

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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #4 on: August 22, 2011, 03:54:11 AM »
Salaam,

I hope the dude's response is a joke!

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I came across this article and wanna ask your position on his idea.

Ummm... I cannot help but thinking there is a pun in that question :3.

But yeah, I strongly oppose his idea, in regards to sexual oppression towards the so-called 'kaffir' women. There is not much to be said, as I believe Qur'an is against oppression in any way.

That being said, there is a masturbation thread in the past, I suggest you browsed through that and see what arguments the others have put forward.

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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #5 on: August 22, 2011, 01:01:10 PM »
How embarrassing is this blokes answer! I think it was made by a kid or something.
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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #6 on: August 22, 2011, 02:14:57 PM »
I did the same.. WTH???? Is this a joke!

 :eat: yum, does that mean I can nail some kaffir men?? Damn it I am married, what was I thinking..lol, but what if they are of my RIGHT HAND POSSESSION... Oh I forgot, I am a woman ... I can't, sex is only for the man. Us women are DEAD inside......... :rotfl:

so disturbing!
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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #7 on: August 22, 2011, 03:46:50 PM »
Slam all,

I came across this article and wanna ask your position on his idea.

I don't know any Sunni/Shia that thinks this way! This guy has problems lol 

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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #8 on: August 22, 2011, 04:41:51 PM »
First error I believe was made when trying to reference 33:50

33:50 O prophet, We have made lawful for you the wives to whom you
have already given their dowries, and those who are maintained
by your oath, as granted to you by God; and the daughters of the
brothers of your father, and the daughters of the sisters of your
father, and the daughters of the brothers of your mother, and the
daughters of the sisters of your mother - those who emigrated
with you. Also, the believing woman who had decreed herself to
the prophet, the prophet may marry her if he wishes, as a privilege
given only to you and not to the believers
. We have already
decreed their rights in regard to their spouses and those who are
maintained by their oaths. This is to spare you any hardship. God
is Forgiver, Merciful.
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Re: Can Muslims Watch Porn, Do Sex with Toys & Do Masturbation?
« Reply #9 on: August 23, 2011, 08:56:12 AM »

YAMU: THANKS FOR EXPOSING THE EVIL IN SUNNISM AGAINST WOMEN.

What the hell? ???

Dear brother all whats written in this article is not a joke but is the truth. You have not asked your sunni or shia friends about it thats why you dont know. Ask any sunni or wahabi scholer or read their hadith and you will find out that adultery is actually allowed for muslim males in sunnism.  Not only may a Muslim man have sex with a married woman, but he may also sell her as a slave to another man. And a muslim man can even also rape infidel women in front of their husbands. Here are the proofs from the hadith and sunni scholers:

Abu Dawud 2:2150

Abu Sai’d al-Khudri said : The Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) sent a military expedition to Awtas on the occasion of the battle of Hunain. They met their enemy and fought with them. They defeated them and took them captives. Some of the Companions of the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him) were reluctant to have intercourse with the female captives in the presence of their husbands who were unbelievers. So Allah, the Exalted, sent down the Qur’anic verse: (Sura 4:24) "And all married women (are forbidden) unto you except those captives whom your right hands possess." That is to say, captive women are lawful for them when they complete their menstrual period. (1479)

Sahih Bukhari 3:46:718

Narrated Ibn Muhairiz: I saw Abu Said and asked him about coitus interruptus. Abu Said said, "We went with Allah's Apostle, in the Ghazwa of Barli Al-Mustaliq and we captured some of the 'Arabs as captives, and the long separation from our wives was pressing us hard and we wanted to practice coitus interruptus. We asked Allah's Apostle (whether it was permissible). He said, "It is better for you not to do so. No soul, (that which Allah has) destined to exist, up to the Day of Resurrection, but will definitely come, into existence."

Al-Muwatta 29 29.3299:

Yahya related to me from Malik from Damra ibn Said al-Mazini from al-Hajjaj ibn Amr ibn Ghaziya that he was sitting with Zayd ibn Thabit when Ibn Fahd came to him. He was from the Yemen . He said, "Abu Said! I have slave-girls. None of the wives in my keep are more pleasing to me than them, and not all of them please me so much that I want a child by them, shall I then practise coitus interruptus?" Zayd ibn Thabit said, "Give an opinion, Hajjaj!" "I said, 'May Allah forgive you! We sit with you in order to learn from you!' He said, 'Give an opinion! 'I said, She is your field, if you wish, water it, and if you wish, leave it thirsty. I heard that from Zayd.' Zayd said, 'He has spoken the truth.'"

According to Islamic scholers

Islam Q&A, Fatwa No. 10382, November 24, 2005 (http://www.islamqa.com/en/ref/10382)

Islam allows a man to have intercourse with his slave woman, whether he has a wife or wives or he is not married...Whoever regards that as haraam is a sinner who is going against the consensus of the scholars.

Islam Web Fatwa No. 86251, September 17, 2003(http://www.islamweb.net/fatwa/index.php?page=showfatwa&lang=E&Id=86251&Option=FatwaId)
seeking enjoyment with a bondmaid by having sex with her or by its introductory things (such as kissing, embracing, fondling, etc.) are all disallowable unless she is legally and completely owned by a free man...he may have sex with her by means of right-hand possessing, and not by way of marriage contract. A bondmaid taken by her master for sexual intercourse is called 'Suriyyah' (bondmaid taken as a makeshift for wife in terms of coitus).


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So as you can see, according to sunnis a woman is nothing more then a sex object or a sexual organ. Women are sex slaves, can be bought and sold for the pleasure of the men. So kidnap women and fuck them. Commit adultery as long as you want, just keep sure that you kidnap the women first and that the women are ''infidel'' and guess what: some quranist also agree with that.





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